If Its Volunteer Don't Demand

What is it with people and their expectations of others. If someone volunteers to do something nice for you and you except what they have to offer that doesn't mean to start making requests and ordering how things are to be done. If you want it simple and easy then don't call them and tell them that you only want particular things there and this is the way you do it. It makes people want to scream at you "To Do It Yourself"! Gee wiz try to be nice and others think that you are a secretary, taxi driver, master chef, party planner, decorator, and that you have a money tree at your disposal. Really people give me a break! I do have a life that you seem to have forgotten about, do you really think I got up this morning and said hmmm...what could I do to fill my time for the next 24 hours? I know I will do all of someone elses stuff today! As if my going to school full time, my 3 kids, and my own to do list don't matter. Really....Rude!